Dunstan Baby Language

'Dunstan Baby Language' is a great way to tune into your baby life. Believe or not your baby can talk tho. i was only able to understand the sounds for hungry,  tired and burp. when zidan  starts to cry and speak his language. for sample 'Neh Neh Neh' i tau lah zidan nak breastfeed. so takde lah kena tunggu baby cues baru nak respond. mine also have baby's schedule but the good schedule takes into account the baby's needs.

the rest sound is same. susah sikit nak interpret the different cries;

Neh: I'm Hungry

Owh: I'm tired (like yawn)

Heh: I'm in discomfort (too hot, too cold, wet diaper or needs a change of position)

Eairh: I have lower gas

Eh: I have upper gas (like burp)

For more tips about Dunstan baby language, check here.

Pacifiers

Pacifiers: are they good for baby?

when zidan was born, i remember how i tried to keep in mind and always saying to my hubby for not giving a pacifier to zidan. I believe that a lot of moms will have the same problem is whether or not to use a paci to baby. but, as time went on, my hubby and i start to think if ok we use paci. at 3 month old,  now zidan started sucking his thumbs and fingers also have trouble sleeping. guess what? sometimes he only will fall asleep while bf-ing and trouble leaving the nipple. i read that moms should not use a paci until baby can latch onto your breast well or after 6weeks old (as this to avoid newborn gets confused between the nipple and pacifier) moms also have to consider offering a paci at naptime and bedtime because it will help protect babies from SIDS (i love this) it sound good. read more pros and cons about pacifiers here.

but, the problem i heard that some child will attached to a paci until they reach 3years above (wah dah kenapa). betul ke susah baby nak take off once dah jadi paci baby? So when is the right time to take paci away? i concern jugak if paci baby will gets some effects to teeth (in case of penyebab jonggang ke). kesian lah pulak. thee!

Pendidikan Cara Rasulullah

7 tahun pertama (baby, kanak2)

-waktu untuk memanjakan anak dan tidak dipukul dan berikan kasih sayang sepenuhnya seperti mencium dan memeluk anak.

7 tahun kedua (kanak2 sebelum remaja)

-anak yang telah meningkat usia 7 tahun ke atas harus dipukul, dijentik atau didenda jika tidak bersolat dan melakukan kesalahan.

7 tahun ketiga (remaja)

-tidak memukul anak diwaktu usia remaja mereka malah mereka perlu didekati sebagai kawan. beri perhatian sewajarnya seperti selami hati dan mendengar luahan hati anak kerana di usia ini mereka cepat sensitif dan sukar untuk diramal sikapnya.

Topshop Make Up

last month my mascara and eyeliner dah abis. for mascara i prefer Lancome and liquid eyeliner pulak Mac coz easy to apply tapi sebab last minute nak attend kenduri so i pegi je watson kat jusco and tried out eyeliner by simplysiti. if nak carik Lancome confirm kena pegi klcc, midvel paling tak pon alamanda. tapi almaklum la sekarang mana lah bole main redah je shopping complex ni kan. nak outing kena plan awal2 sebab si kecik ni makin kuat bf. tapi mebe product ni tak sesuai dengan kulit i kot especially eyeliner tak lekat sangat.

btw my hubby offer if i nak pegi klcc rabu lepas, hah apa lagi confirm la nak. itu pon sebab inform 4 5 jam lebih awal so senang la nak besiap and prepare tuk zidan.  thot of eyeliner (the ink runs out so fast) and 2way cake yang dah nak abis tu harus la dibeli sebelum incident last minute jadik lagi plus my hubby yang memang pantang betul last minute plan ni. thee! lagi pon last week i received notification pasal Topshop make up in store now and only at KLCC outlet. Check them out at Topshop Make Up.

as i entered the outlet, i terus cari make up counter sebab zidan dah bagi hint nak bf so before dia menjerit  baik i cepat. then i found the make up shelf  it on the left side from the main entrance. i was scanning over the shelf to see the make up and while i try the make up, zidan pon start menjerit. aiyo hero mama ni tak bagi chance betul la sama macam ayahanda dia je. i pon terus keluar and pegi parent room. dah sejam melayan si kecik ni bf-ing, lepas tu die poo poo pulak. kena la tunggu nak tukar diaper. 

then pegi balik Topshop in rushed sebab dah masuk maghrib. so i grab terus 2 items ni,

Powder Foundation.

 Pen Eyeliner

Next visit, must have their pencil eyeliner and crayon eyeshadow. wink wink!

Ilmu Dunia & Akhirat

spend my quality time reading Aniqah. "Kecemerlangan dan kejayaan anak sebenarnya bermula di rumah". i suka quote ni. tapi quote yang ni lagi best "Ibu adalah sekolah pertama".dan tak lupa jugak pepatah lama yang berbunyi "lenturlah buluh dari rebungnya". bukan mudah untuk mendidik anak menjadi insan yang bukan saja berjaya malah soleh. 

dalam banyak content yang i baca, tajuk ni yang paling menyentuh hati "Hafaz Al-Quran Sejak Usia 4 Tahun". baru 4thn dah boleh hafaz 30 juzuk. Alhamdulillah. kagum sungguh. actually, my hubby and i penah terbaca blog ibu kepada si kecil ni time pregnant dulu. tak sangka dalam magazine ni pon ada cerita mengenainya, so i interested pulak nak bekongsi tentang beliau dalam post kali ni. menurut ibunya Darwisya Adriaana dah diperdengarkan surah surah al-Quran since berusia 6 bulan.

seperti kata Imam Al-Ghazali, ilmu yang perlu didahulukan ilmu al-Quran iaitu ilmu naqli (rohani) untuk membentuk seseorang menjadi hamba yang baik. lepas tu baru lah ilmu aqli (ilmu akal). Ibu si kecil juga menggalakkan anak nya makan badam, kismis, kurma, madu, habatussauda, buah zaitun dan air yang dibaca surah Thoha". 

kepada ibu, mama n mummy yang breastfeed boleh jugak try Aiedil Dnavechee. ini bukan promote (bukan agent pon) tapi just nak share sebab i pon amalkan minum 2 kali sehari so far rasa lebih baik and energetic untuk bf-ing zidan. tapi sometimes i layankan jamah 2 3 ulas kurma, at least 7 biji kismis and madu royal jelly yang i beli dekat alamanda tu je sebab nak betukar menu. yang ni memang i telan since pregnant lagi. my hubby memang tiap hari tanya "dah makan kurma,  kismis and minum madu ke hari ni"  konpem lah tak lupa kan sebab dah macam alarm bagi reminder. thee! yang penting khasiat nya sama. baby 0-6bulan still tak boleh mamam so ibu lah yang kena amalkan style pemakanan sihat untuk baby. 

Alhamdulillah, zidan juga dah diperdengarkan surah surah al-Quran since 1mth especially bila dia tengah tido waktu lepas subuh and selalu nya sampai la pukul 10 or 11pagi. sometimes waktu malam itu pon if zidan tido awal.

Make Your Positive Influences

Children see, children do. They are always looking for role models, who can show them how to cope with life, give hope, and communicate about worth living.

wish I can be a good role model to my son. Insyaallah. motherhood is a journey which it take time and courage.

Magazine

last weekend borong few magazines and one of it Aniqah january edition. actually 1st time beli magazine ni sebab subject untuk keluaran kali ni menarik and sangat perlu dibaca. dulu bila zaman sekolah twice a month sure i tak akan lupa beli majalah Remaja (pembeli tegar) lepas tu, masuk je University layan Cleo pulak. maklum la time tu baru nak belaja berfesyen la katakan. bila dah start kerja beli plak Herworld n etc. then bila nak buat wedding prep, segala jenis magazine pasal kahwin i borong setiap bulan Pengantin, Ratu Sehari, Bride n etc.if nak borong magazine kahwin2 ni better gi Kinokuniya, seriously banyak choice.

last yr around march we moved into our new apartment. haaa this time segala jenis magazine related dengan decor mesti i beli. especially Apartmen and Impiana Dapur memang best! 

march last year pregnant. so, complete je buat renovation and decorate our new apartment i start borong magazine Parenthood, my favorite one PaMa and yang ni pon quite interesting Mami&Baby.

and now... bila dah entering motherhood life harus lah beli segala jenis magazine yang sewaktu dengannya kan.

ciao n 2 be cont... zidan awake ;-)